This is just curiosity on my part. Having talked to a lot of ladies and read a lot of online dating profiles while I was between relationships this seemed to come up a lot. Almost every profile I read the lady in question would say they were looking for a nice guy. After talking to female friends and asking them the answer was almost always the same. They wanted a njce guy.Why is it then that almost all of them end up with the bad boy. One friend I talked to a lot after my wife left that was married told me she used to prefer the bad boys but after getting hurt and used by them she decided on her nice guy husband. She said he had been persuing her for 2 years and when she realized she made the change. I have anothdr male friend that I consider a bad boy. He has no problem cheating and if he decides he wants a girl he will do whatever it takes to get her. Well he set his sights on the female friend I mentioned and I told him she would never sleep with him. I was wrong.He kept working on her until she did. She doesn't know that I know but it changed how I feel about her. I'm not a fan of cheaters. I guess I should rephrase the guy she cheated with is more of an aquantance than a friend because I have no respect for him but I have to be civil we do work together. I don't know why he always has to tell me abouy his conquests.
I have also noticed almost all of the ladies that said they want a nice guy it seems they really want a bad boy. I can't understand what it is. I know some of it is excitement and some is yhe confidence of the bad boy but I can't nail it down.
What got me thinking about it this time I have a female friend that just married a bad boy that has treated her like crap. She used to call me for support when he would hurt her feelings until I couldn't take it anymore. I told her to leave him or deal with it because it wasn't fair for her to expect me to be her shoulder to cry on when I have a girlfriend and besides she never listened. 2 of her daughters wouldn't talk to her anymore because of him. I refused to go to the wedding which was her 3rd and I warned her about number 2 as well. She would call me crying all the time saying why can't I meet a nice guy like you. Obviously she doesn't want a nice guy. Can anybody shed some light on this. I'm a curious person and I try yo unddrstand why people do what they do but I'm at a loss on this one.