Ok. I'm a little more open-minded when it comes to sex. Yes, she lied, because she assumed you would not approve of her new job. That's a valid reason to lie about something so sensitive, at least it's very sensitive in the US. So, I would not count that against her. She did do you a big favor by saving your house. That is one piece of evidence that shows she cares about you.
The flip side is about disease. In Germany and other countries, even in the legal brothels in Nevada in the US, all clients wear a condom to prevent disease. So while the risk of disease is reduced, it is not gone. (I've seen documentaries about the Nevada brothels and the ones in Germany.)
So, if you two truly care about each other, why not give it a go? Are there other red flags we should know about? Prostitutes are people and they need love too.
Last edited by bulrush; 12-03-12 at 10:17 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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