10+dates..questions about taking it to the next level?

[Vtgirl]

I've gone on about 10+ dates with this guy that I really like. We've spent the weekend together, etc. He seems pretty interested.
About 6 months ago, he got out of a 10 yr relationship. He says hes never going back with her, but there are some things they are taking care of (car in his name that she drives, money, etc).

We seem to have a connection, and he says he really likes me. This AM in bed, I asked him if he thinks I'm someone he would want to have a relationship with.

He said I ask the wrong questions at the wrong time. He didn't say it in a bad way, or mean way.
I don't want to keep going on dates with him, etc if he doesn't want a relationship.

I'm not sure what to do right now..He doesn't like to be pestered with questions.

[sadie_genie]

He doesn't want a relationship and he wants to avoid your questions regarding long term. Stop letting him play you like a fool. Leave him if a relationship is what you are looking for.

[Vtgirl]

Should I stop talking to him completely or give him a reason why I'm not going to see him anymore?

[surfhb]

You're reason is clear: You want a committed relationship. Humans are hard wired to pair up so if he's not willing to, there something wrong

[IndiReloaded]

Geeze, 10 dates and in bed already with no idea what he is looking for? Next time (i.e. next guy), ask his intentions before sex.

[haxan]

He doesn't like to be pestered with questions.

I'm not seeing a problem with this

[couchpotato]

With you after 10 years RS ? I think the guy will hit the MY EX button before you blink...this is not a good deal for you,so you know.
They got a long history,lots of love...get out if you can before it is too late and dont let your ego to advise you here.