bf is not telling me if he wants to break up

[katerose]

I have been in a relation with my bf for 2 yrs. However recently he says i have hurted him . He ignored me for two months. So my best friend asked him why he is doing this he said he wants to break up but did not give her any reason. He told my best friend to tell me to move on and dont cry and be sad and he doesnt want to talk to me and its over. If he wants to breakup why cant he come and tell me and give the reason? am i so bad that i dont deserve a closure? What should i do? I love him so much

[Mathias]

I have been in a relation with my bf for 2 yrs. However recently he says i have hurted him . He ignored me for two months. So my best friend asked him why he is doing this he said he wants to break up but did not give her any reason. He told my best friend to tell me to move on and dont cry and be sad and he doesnt want to talk to me and its over. If he wants to breakup why cant he come and tell me and give the reason? am i so bad that i dont deserve a closure? What should i do? I love him so much

Nope, he's a coward.

Start moving on, and don't contact him again, even if he contacts you.

[smackie9]

Sorry but Mathias is right, he is a coward.

You want closure you have to be the one to step up and confront him. If he isn't willing to tell you why, then YOU officially tell him to his face it's over, and give yourself closure.

[eva43]

I agree with smackie9. It can be difficult to move on if you have no idea why things end that way. However, if he doesn't want to talk to you, then it's not your problem anymore. Move on and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

[katerose]

Thank u very much fr all your suggestions. He told me he fell in love with someone else.

[smackie9]

I'm so sorry for your loss katerose, must have been horrible to hear those words. At least you finally got your closure and it wasn't anything you had done wrong.

**What a weiner he was for making you suffer for 2 months.

[kay6]

I feel you. I don't know why some guys don't have the decency to break up with their gf. well, either way it hurts. I know.