My boyfriend of 2 months has been throwing red flags all over and I am so confused not sure what to do. I have posted on his behavior before which is making me question his morals and ability to be in a committed relationship. This weekend his best friend's girl told me he had 3 kids, I only knew about 1. I confronted him and he wanted to try to tell me it was only 2? And then he said that he told me he had more than 1 kid, pretty sure I would remember that! I took this pretty hard because I never knew my dad and I feel he has a responsibility to these children as a father, he is only in 1 of their lives and the relationship with his ex is so rocky he has trouble seeing even him. I myself haven't ever had children, I am 34 and I guess feel like I am at the age where I need to choose if I want them or not at all. This puts a lot of burden on me now because I would be the only one who could be financially responsible for any children we had, if we had them highly doubtful now.
I think I might be setting myself up for failure here.