Last year, I met this girl Sara. We were work buddy's and I hung out with her everyday. Over the course of the next few weeks, we ended up getting really close and ended up kissing on a few occasions. After a while, I told her how I felt about her, and she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. After that, I started to distance myself a bit. Then we hung out again a week later and she tried to kiss me and I didn't let her. Now my question is, why did she try to do that? You know, kiss me and be intimate with me, yet not want to have a relationship? Why do women do that? Play the field like that? Can somebody explain? She clearly wasn't ready to have a relationship yet still felt the need to be physically intimate with me. She knew how I felt about her. And If I allowed her to be intimate with me, it would have only made my feelings grow more..