I have been dating my gf for a few months now and I would consider our relationship to be pretty serious. When we met, it honestly started off with a bang, I've never been so close to anyone in my life and she says the same. We have talked about the future, basically expressing that one day we would like to end up together...married, etc.
Anyways, fast forward to the last month, and things have changed. In the past seeing her was pretty easy, we would make plans and meet or just hang, it wasn't a problem. Now it feels like a mission or like I'm pulling teeth in trying to make plans with her. We both have jobs where we are able to text throughout the day etc, and now when I text I don't get responses back in a decent amount of time, or even at all sometimes (I don't care if I get responses back fast, the only thing is, I know she lives on her phone like 24/7, so I really have no idea whats going on). Each time I propose a plan to do something it's met with a "maybe" "dunno" "ill see", never anything concrete. Even if I text her stuff like "I miss you" she doesn't even respond with anything, just ignores.
I bought it up to her one day and basically asked if she still felt the same in the relationship, or if anything has changed, and she said no, everything is fine, just that right now she feels "comfortable" with me.
I guess maybe I am a bit of a needy person, but I don't consider myself extreme. As long as I get some communication from her, and I'm able to make plans/look forward to them, I'm fine.
Just to give you guys an example, the other day I texted her asking her if she wanted to hang out later on that night. She said yea, at 7, because she is picking "stuff" up. I said that's cool. She later texts me saying that it will most likely be 8. I said it's cool. Then she texts me saying it will be more like 9. I tell her cool and ask her by chance out of curiosity what she's picking up, and she said "does it matter"? I told her it really doesn't but that I was curious, and she said that she isn't going to share mundane things with me.
What do you make of the above interaction?
Any advice is apperciated. I really would like this relationship to work, and I am trying hard, but lately I am not feeling the "love" so to speak, and it's making me wonder.
Also another thing, she is a pretty busy girl, works, has a lot of hobbies, and responsibilities, more than me for sure, so I understand that she doesn't have as much time/focus to give me as I give her.