Hi Forum members
My divorce came through last year and even though I know the woman he left me for (his work colleague who fell pregnant) I still have not seen the 2 of them together as a couple. Its now 3 years. My sons are teens and she effectively is a step-mother to them. No problems on this front.
I was recently in a relationship where I was offered the opportunity to go away for the weekend (to try and advance the course of our relationship), I froze. I am having commitment issues. Even though I acknowledge the marriage is over, I guess I need to see it to believe it. In case youre wondering, I rather feel she is nervous about seeing me too. I think if I saw the 2 of them as a couple sooner rather than later it would help me build a bridge where this big mess is concerned. He is completely under the thumb, treats me with hostility even though he got everything he wanted. This sounds rather pathetic...still I invested a long time here. Thanks for listening.