very confused about my ex gf .

[ayran]

ill try to sum this up. Been with a girl five months , Since she basically lost everything in her life right when i meet her and stayed with her for the five months and even dealt with her anger and her unhappiness. NOw i know shes trying to better things but its complicated she works a male friends house and i know there is nothing going on and if there is oh well lol but hes going through a bad divorice and well he gives her money to take care of his home but he sold it and anytime she has to get an apartment if she can afford it if not she will go back to living with friends. Thats what she was doing when with me she woud stay with me a few nihgts then with friends like she todl me she didnt like living with anyone like that so be it and it seemed to make the relationship better when we would fight and she would stay away long. Now its been three weeks and i have seen her upon her request to eihter pick her up at her house slash work and i didnt because i feel funny going there only once and well meet her at certain bars. But we havent had sex and sex was big part. She tells me there is nobody else and i havent found out and my problem is and someone is gonna yell at me but i text her every dam day even if its a negative text. I think i neeed to not contact her she is so used to me bothering her by texting her. its so dumb but i guesss that could make her decide not to see me. I havent yet not texted her for a day or more. ANd I also played a game which she does and send a pic of me and a girl to see her reaction and she ended up contacting the girl to ask her if im with her. NOw that right there. come on and htat was two days ago but when she found out i kinda wasnt she became a bitch and started the ignoring me . I think i should not contact her at all for a few days and see how she reacts. I Know the texting and the phone games bother her toomuch and too little.
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[BackUpOrGetStng]

Stop contacting her. When she contacts you, tell her not to talk to you at all anymore unless she wants to get back together.

[ayran]

oh so u suspect she is doing this purposly and stringing me along i see using my texting kinda to reinsure she still has me. mmm

[Cerby]

oh so u suspect she is doing this purposly and stringing me along i see using my texting kinda to reinsure she still has me. mmm

No, she is simply done. Not stringing by any means. You're the one still contacting her, not the other way around.

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