Clubbing for guys?

[IQSnowyX]

Guys, why do you still go clubbing even though you already have girlfriends?
I'm sure many other women face the same problems/unease when it comes to their guys going to clubbing.
My guy told me he just wants to go there and hang out with friends, drink and chat, not necessarily to hook up.
But as a woman I still feel it's not that way.
So why?

[TeeJay19]

Guys need a guys night out every now and then, just the same way girls need a girls night out every now and then. And if a guy has some single friends those guys probably want to go to the club where there's a chance to meet some girls. It doesn't mean your boyfriend's there to meet girls, he just wants to hang out with his friends and have some drinks. He might talk to some girls to help his friends hook-up with someone, but as long as he's a good guy that's as far as it will go. It's really no big deal.

If you're going to be in a relationship with someone you have to trust them. If you can't trust your bf to go somewhere without you and not try and hook-up with other girls then you probably shouldn't be with him in the first place.

A few weeks ago I had a guy's night with some of my friends, one of whom had a girlfriend. We went to a club and were having a good time. My friend who's in a relationship is really good guy and wasn't even talking to any other girls, just hanging out with us guys. But once his girlfriend found out he was at a club she totally flipped out and told him he shouldn't be there and he had to leave. It was a real drag, especially since he's one of my best friends and we don't get to hang out that often. The point of the story? Don't be that kind of girlfriend. Let your bf go out and have a good time with his friends. If he does cheat you'll find out eventually and you'll know he's not the guy the guy for you.

[smackie9]

Ya everyone needs to have a life outside the relationship to keep things fresh, to keep your independence and identity. Never restrict your partner from spending time with friends or you will be known as the controlling bitch GF. If he cheats, he will cheat no matter what anyways......club or not.

[Jason2]

Thanks for your post.

[DACHUANZ]

much appreciated

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[IQSnowyX]

Thanks, that helps. Maybe I don't have confident with myself that's why...