So I realised that, being a girl, more often than not to me sex = love.
I find it hard to understand how people can seperate the two... but I know they can.
I have slept with people who I had zero feelings for, but only when I've been drunk and it's been very much just sex, as in it was one off, and it wasn't affectionate, there wasn't any cuddling or talking or anything, and I got out of there pretty quick. I get how that can be just sex.
But what I am wondering about is, will someone be in a relationship that they see as 'just sex' and act in the following way...
- spend a lot of time with the person not having sex/ in bed
- sleep over afterwards every time and cuddle and be affectionate like spooning, holding hands, kissing etc.
- stay the next morning and talk/ hang out
because to me, that stuff means more- and I couldn't do that with someone I didn't have feelings for... but I know a lot of people are in relationships where it is just physical and I was wondering if they do that stuff because I'm worried I'll be in that situation where a guy is acting like that (being affectionate, sleeping over etc.) and not realise that he's in it just for the sex...