Hello,
I have been in a relationship with my bf for a year and a half. He's the type of guy who's not very passionate and expresses his feelings; we have gotten into some arguments at the beginning of our relationship because of this issue and his response will always be like, "if I don't care or if I don't see you as my girl, I wouldn't be taking you home to my family and introduce you to my friends." I'm really not the type who needs a lot of attention either so I accept that reason. I bought my own place 9 months ago and he has pretty much moved in with me since then; so I'd be cooking and doing his laundry, etc etc. He does contribute to the houswork from time to time but I can't really count on that. He's quite a gamer so whenever we're at home, he'd be gaming while I'd either be doing chores, or maybe watching some TV on my own while watching him play. I'm a bit of a gamer too so I do enjoy watching him play but we just never been into the same type of game. Then D3 came out and obviously he's been staring at the computer whenever he has time. Since I have a lot of friends that play D3 as well, I started playing too. At the beginning, my bf was very disouraging, keping saying that I should just play on his computer and no need to purhcase my own (which we all know would not work...). So I ended up getting my own games and have been playing with my friends (and with him occasionally). Then tonight, he was supposed to meet up with his friend for a LAN party + dinner gathering and does not really want me to be there; I really don't get it since even if he doesn't want me to play, I could just chill with his friends' wives and kids. I keep feeling that he just want me to be there when its' convenient for him and want me to get lost when he's fed, sexually satisfied and have clean cloths.
Another thing that bugs me a lot is that my family is actually from another town (I moved to the current city all by myself almost 3 years ago), and I would go visit my family once a month. Whenever I tell him I'm going home, he'd say that I abandoned him and how he ended up doing nothing interested but just spending time on his own the entire weekend, and he'd always say he missed him and wish I'm in town. But during the time I'm out of town, he'd never call/txt/msg me, which makes me really wonder if he really gives a sh!t about me...
Please help? He's 31 and I'm turning 27 in a month; we're planning to go to Europe together in Sept... If this is not meant to be, I rather end it right now so both of us continue to live with the wrong person...
Thanks a lot in advance.