I (27) have been with my boyfriend (31) for one year, living together for six months. I thought the last year was perfect. We had exactly two arguments--which we resolved well--and we've never "fought". He seemed ecstatically happy, mostly.
But after each of those two arguments, he said that half the time he's really excited and happy to be with me; the other half of the time he's just comfortable; and then there are a handful of days that he wondered if he'd be happier single. He's concerned that he might not be as happy as he could be, but he's afraid he might be making a huge mistake if he moves out.
I don't think he has enough relationship experience to know what he wants. He's never lived with somebody before, and I don't think he can recognize a good thing. (I, however, had a prior 5-year relationship that was horrible.) He admits this is possible.
What do we do? I know we moved in too fast... Should I tell him to take a break for a few days and stay with his family? Are his doubts normal? Is our relationship not as good as I think it is?