Hello there!
Im Jonathan and im 27!I've been seeing my girlfriend a month (and I know thats early) I've known her for about 4 months.
We are a perfect match and get on immensely well. Our relationship is perfect! Anyway 3 weeks ago she started feeling poorly and a week later she found out she was pregnant. She was taking birth control however forgot to take it once and unfortunately fell pregnant because of it. We both talked about it a lot and decided to abort the pregnancy for a number of sensible ideas.
She is booking an appointment in the next few days however I was just wondering if any women on here had been through abortion or know anyone that has? I just want some advice to be honest. At the moment it feels like there is a big black cloud over the relationship and it wont go until it is sorted. It may sound selfish but I cant wait till its all over now and sorted so we can get back to how we was before.
My girlfriend is really concerned that we won�t be able to continue the way we was however I just keep reassuring her however im a laid back easy going guy. I wont allow there to be any tension or awkwardness once itïs all over. Im a bit worried also because I dont want it to cause us to split up and I really want her to give me the chance and come out so I can prove that we can go back to how we was.
I just feel really rubbish at the moment. Im not seeing her a lot because she ïs poorly and her head is a mess! Itïs not causing any arguments e.t.c and when shes talking/texting itïs normal.
What should I be doing/saying to help her and support her? Im trying not to hound her a lot and cause her any more stress and like I said keep reassuring her about us and telling her me and her splitting up is a worry she doesnt need!.
Thanks for reading everyone and thanks in advance for your comments! I do love her to bits and I just want everything to be ok and go back to the happy relationship we had before. Shes not just my girlfriend, she ïs my best friend aswell