Hi everyone
Really in need of some advice, as brutally honest as you like please as this is doing my head in!
I have known this guy for a while and always liked him, he is known through my family and many people have said how much of a good couple we would be, that he is the nicest bloke you'll ever meet but is shy and if I wanted to go out I'd have to ask him out, so I decided against that as it's not really me. I don't like to put myself out there too much incase of rejection really.
So anyway the other week I saw him in a supermarket and he looked really nice, he sent me a message the following day and started talking all day and everyday since. We met up the following night and soon were kissing pretty passionately, I was very aware that I wasn't going to do anything more than just kiss as I liked him so much but once we were back to texting after our meet it soon turned dirty...I had never experienced 'Lust at first site' until I met with him. I was really shocked at how open he was being about things he wanted us to do and I felt so comfortable with it...definitely not the 'shy' person I thought he was! We met up a few times after and I was really honest with him and said I wouldn't want to sleep with him as I was worried I wouldn't hear from him again and that I am not the type of girl who does that with anyone and he told me not to worry and that he's not like that either, besides his uncle (not by blood who is my step dad) would not be happy with him if he did that and he's a scary guy and very protective over girls in the family.
Anyway cutting to the point, we slept together last night, it was amazing and he really enjoyed it too. I got lots of soppy messages last night about how he cannot wait to see me again etc. But today hardly a thing, very short answers in fact which is really unlike him.
I am now worrying that I gave in too soon, I didn't want to keep putting him off and sound like a prude and to be honest I really wanted to do it, like I said earlier it really was lust at first sight!
He is a really nice guy, I've known him for 16 years so know that he isn't a 'player' and has been brought up in a respectable family.
I would really appreciate a guys perspective on this please. Constructive advice please on how I should go about this, if he has just played me or if I should be honest?
To be honest I don't think he'd dare 'play' me as my stepdad would kill him and he knows that, and my step dad was the one telling both of us (seperately) we should get together.
I'm wandering if he is actually shy when it comes to striking up non-sex related conversation or maybe he's scared...is that possible?
OR am I looking at this with rose tinted glasses?
From a mans point of you what should I do without looking stalker-ish! I like this guy - should I move on or bite the bullet and say something to him!
Thanks in advance