Me and my partner are in a LDR, she lives 6 hrs drive away (1hr flight), as im sure with every LDR at first we talked constantly, used facetime etc and always had new conversation to talk about, over time as you can expect there is only so much new stuff you can talk about without it seeming the same conversation every time.
I really care about her and if all goes well I'm going to move there in a few months, she has had a real **** of an ex who hit her (hense why they broke up) and I know she finds it hard to open up again most of the time but she has also said to me that she cares for me a lot and that's the reason she's trying to let someone in again. Before she met me she said she'd basically given up hope.
I think we're talking on the phone too much, it's great to talk in the morning for 15mins before work, then I'll normally talk to her during the day split up for a few hours then we'll talk when I get home from gym for another 2-4hrs, as I said over time conversation is starting to slow a little which I think is a normal thing I mean how many things can happen in a day to talk for 4-6hrs.
I need help in how to say this to her without her taking it the wrong way. I'm pretty sure she is going to feel the same way but I don't want her to think it's because I don't want to talk to her but more because I don't want the relationship to start going stale. I'd be happy to talk for the 15mins in the morning, maybe a few mins at lunch quickly and a little bit before bed. I can tell she feels the same because before we would talk while I cook tea etc now she always says go have your shower, cook, eat then give me a call. This doesn't bother me, because there's not a huge deal left to know about each other it's more so just day to day stuff.
Sorry for the wall of text, but how much is a good amount with in a LDR and how can I say it to her without it sounding wrong or her taking it wrong.
I think if we keep talking this much the relationship is going to become stale and not work. I'm going to see her this weekend coming but I think a discussion on the phone about it would be fine because that's 4 days away otherwise.
Thanks.