Is She Interested In Me?!

[YouKeepThisLove]

Hey guys and gals... Im 23 and have some questions for ya. So I met this girl almost a year ago at work. We talked for a few hours everyday. We have a ton of things in common... Everything from our family life, sense of humor, some sports, music, the bar life/partying etc. She was always so smiley and flirty, but I think that is just her personality towards all dudes.

Last week I asked her if she wanted to go to a baseball game with me and she said yes. I didn't text or talk to her for 4 or 5 days after she confirmed, and she text me the day of the game asking if we were "still on for later." that makes me think she really wanted to go with me. We had an awesome time, and seemed to really click. Just laughing non stop and having fun. It just felt so natural around her.. But then again, I don't know if it's just her flirty personality.

I've ran across a lot of girls that were super interested in me, but there are very few girls I am attracted to as "more than a friend." done a bit of casual dating, but nothing very serious because I just can't get into them all that much. I actually feel like I've never felt before about this one. She is perfect in my eyes, and I really want her to be my girlfriend.

This is getting long so I'll wrap it up. Basically I'm wondering how to go about finding out what she's looking for. She just got out of a relationship shortly ago, I'm always the one to initiate text conversation, and sometimes she doesn't reply until the next day. I don't know if I'm over thinking this, or these are signs that I'm friendzoned. What's a good way to find this out?

Thanks in advance everyone!

[surfhb]

Yes....youre over thinking. Just keep taking her out and get to know her better. Its not a race to see how quickly whats shes thinking....just let things happen. It may takes months or several weeks but dont go out with a chick once, twice or even three times and ask her to be exclusive or ask her your opinion of the relationship. It makes you look silly, desperate and kinda creepy IMO

Also....why would you ask her out and wait up till the day of the even to re-confirm? Its your job to control the way things flow

[YouKeepThisLove]

Yes....youre over thinking. Just keep taking her out and get to know her better. Its not a race to see how quickly whats shes thinking....just let things happen. It may takes months or several weeks but dont go out with a chick once, twice or even three times and ask her to be exclusive or ask her your opinion of the relationship. It makes you look silly, desperate and kinda creepy IMO

Also....why would you ask her out and wait up till the day of the even to re-confirm? Its your job to control the way things flow

Ok well I went back and looked and we did talk a bit in between. In the past when I called/text a girl everyday to chit chat, she thought I was needy and clingy... so I didn't want to come off that way to her this time. This is why I'm here asking y'all for help lol, I'm not too good at reading women.

[Maple1714]

Just take it slow...go on some more dates and don't take it personally if she doesn't respond to a text right away. Just have fun and develop a friendship...I would say though that on the 3rd date kiss her and see what happens. I think you have to have a kiss or something in the beginning to set the tone for the relationship/friendship. If you try and kiss her then you will definitely get your answer as to whether she likes you as more than a friend or not.

I gave this same advice to a friend of mine and he didn't take it! Instead he just kept taking this girl out and paying for everything....his feelings grew and grew...then finally after like 2 months he asked her if she wanted to cuddle with him in his bed (she had gone back to sleep over at his house) and she said "no" and slept on the dirty couch in the living room and woke up and left the next AM. He was really crushed and felt used Now he is sleeping with her roommate...hahaha.

[cheekxs]

People on this forum says that there are a lot girls that want them and they dont date every girl yada yada........ WHATEVER!

If she shortly got out of a relationship, the last thing to do is have one with her right now.

So, just like she is doing, you should do 2. Just chill, talk , get to know each other.
And you can just tell her you would like to know her cause you like her.

its up to her to say yes or no. eater way, give her all the time. cause otherwise you will end up with someone that
still date her ex. cause she did not have the time to get over it. cause of you!