Could my girlfriend be bisexaul or even lesbian?

[FindTheMissing]

Me and my girl have been together for about two years and we are both 20 years old. We both love and care about each other and have a neat sexual life. As a couple we have revealed our secrets to each other and have talked about our experiences as youngers. She once told me that when she was 7 years old she played with her 7 years old female friend pretending to be a couple and kissed on the mouth. I considered this not to be significant since as childs we do things without reasonable thinking.

But I found it significant when she told me that, at the age of 16, she felt something about a female friend of hers. She was thinking about her everyday at this period of time, she liked that they had many interests in common and she even found her beautiful. So she decided to let her know that she liked her more than a friend with SMS via her cellphone. Her friend said to her that she was straight and couldn't see her as more than a friend. She even advised her that she might not be lesbian, but it could be her adolescence and her hormones that cause this whirl (you know, mix-up).

She let me know about this last week, and since then I'm really confused. I don't know if that is normal and I'm really worried. I'm a bit jealous sometimes when she is with boys (I think it's normal) and I can't take to be jealous even when she is with her female friends or when she sleeps with them.

She says that now she is sure that she wants only me. But I'm thinking that she hasn't figured out how is to be with a girl since her friend rejected her. And what if her friend liked her too? Please, female users of the forum (or male with similar experiences) talk to me about this. Have you felt this way as teens? How it turned out? Could she be bisexual and not knowing it?

[surfhb]

This is normal and healthy in my opinion. It's normal especially for girls who are raised to deal with emotions.

[Steelers<3]

I don't think she is a lesbian first of all. Second of all, yes its obvious she is attracted to girls. So am I. That doesn't mean I'm going to go around cheating on my boyfriend hooking up with all these girls. And what is so wrong with that? Do me a favor and don't judge her by this. It was something that happened 4 years ago, and if this is the first your hearing about it, its not something she is dwelling on. I think she finds girls attractive and thats all there is to it. Some guys don't consider their girlfriend being with other girls cheating. Me and my boyfriend feel this way: If I am doing it behind his back, its cheating. If we are together, the more fun Just let her know you have boundaries and that you wouldn't want her to be with anyone without you being there.