Hello,
I am new to this site so here goes...
I am in my mid twenties and I have been SEeing this man for a year and a half now!!
It started out as casually sleeping together but then turned into a lot more and these days we
Are spending most nights with each other!!!
He still after all this time won't comit to me... HIS PAST!!! He was with his ex for 7 years and have
A house together which they are trying to sell. They have been split up now for over 2 years yet he
Is still not over her.. The break hit him REALLY badly and he even tried to end his life!!
When I first started seeing him he would talk about her ell the time and I would listen and help him
I suppose!! Now he doesn't speak of her much just when he does he is very bitter!!
We have told each other we love one another but he says he can't commit to me as he is afraid it will
All go wrong and he can't go through that again.
Even though he says this to me I am stupid enough to carry on seeing him beacuse I love him much.
I am being a real mug arnt I?
From time to time he will have a male melt down and say he can't see me no more course it's not fair
On me but then everything goes back to normal!!
Last night he was drunk and he started crying saying he's sorry and he's been lying and that he still loves
Her as well as me!!! I haven't heard from him since...
I used to be such a strong person but when it comes to him I can't walk away...
Advice please... I feel mentally drained from it all.
Thank you