I am spending time with a woman who I'm starting to have feelings for. She had said right from the beginning she did not want to be in a committed relationship. She just wanted to spend time with me and be intimate. Also that she wanted independance and that she was also spending time with another guy. We text each other everyday, and talk on the phone. I agreed to have a non committed relationship with her. She texted me today to tell me that it feels longer than 3 weeks that we've known each other. T oday when she came over she told me that I make her happy. She told me that I get her energy. But the reason that I am here is to hopefully get some clarity because today she told me that the only reason she is talking to the other guy is to prevent herself from falling for me. She admitted that she does really like me, but because shes at a point in her life where she doesn't want to be tied down she does not want her feelings for me to overwhelm her. She told me that she has a tendency to fall in love fast and she wants to prevent that from happening. Am I being led on? If I am not ( hoping that im not) what should I do so that she eventually might actually fall in love?
I am also going away for 3 weeks, and I am really hoping that absence really does make the heart grow fonder.