Originally Posted by
BackUpOrGetStng
You're wrong about abusive behavior too, unless we're talking strictly those who have started something with me.
Bien sur. There's always an excuse. "But he started it!". School yard antics, as I said.
She played him, and is now back to play some more. He should crush her.
As you can see from the OPs last post, he doesn't need to 'crush her'. She is going to do it all by herself, and this way he doesn't need to feel like an ass about it. This is why one need not stoop to their level. Don't even think of it as a moral issue, think about it as how much your time is worth. Messed up people almost always go there themselves, why waste your own valuable time?
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh