Need help to understand what is going on
Hey. My ex broke up with me last week. We had been together for over a year but our relationship had always been difficult as we're from different countrys and there was always hard to find ways for us to stay together. We met travellin in Australia. We were together there for a year n lived together aswell as we were travelling. But five months ago he had to go back to uk n i stayed in Australia. We did the long distance thing until now. I went to see him about a month ago and we were great. So great that we decided that we're gonna move in together in the uk after i leave Oz. After that everything just went downhill. He just started to doubt in everything and wasnt sure he was ready for it. He just seemed to want to be single again just to hang out with his mates and not to be responsible for anything. That was the reason why we broke up that he doesent know is he ready for it atm and he doesnt want to settle down yet. Since we broke up we've still been in contact. We talk few times a week on pnd he said he misses me. He was also the one who didnt want me to cut off the contact as he didnt want me to just dissapear from his life. I think that everything just got too real for him and he just freaked out. My opinion is that he got scared and it was too much pressure for him that i was gonna move to uk for him. But since we broke up he confuses me. He hasnt changed his relationship status in fb. It stills says in a relationship with me. But he keep putting statuses in fb that hurt me. He keeps posting that he's goin out and just posting stupid things like 5 am in the morning drunk. He has spent a lot of time with his mates getting drunk since we broke up. I just really want you guys to give me advice. Should i try and get him back? I love him and want to be with him but im not sure what to think of it all. Do you thinks there is a chance? And why do u think he keeps acing like that? Maybe im being paronoid but it feels to me sometimes that he just want to get some kind of reaction out of me. Cause he never used to post things on fb like that. I thought that maybe he just needs some time to clear his head and think things through cause i know he still cares about me but i also know that there is no other way for us to really be together than me moving to uk. So it just seems hopeless and im not sure should i keep hoping that we will work things out in the end.