Both excited and nervous

[Ange Barnes]

Perhaps an evening date is proving too much pressure at this stage. Why not consider meeting up during the day sometime... maybe a relaxed lunch and don't worry about the goodbye kiss at this stage. You've known her for a year so think about what interests her... art, sports, outdoors etc and go from there (even better if it's a common interest). Let these 'things' come naturally and she is more inclined to go out with you on a second date instead of choreographing everything. Good luck!

[Indestructible]

If she doesn't get back to you by next week, ask her out again but in a more casual, less 'date' way. Offer to buy her lunch.

Well, I don't have any shifts with her at all next week (I have a couple where I leave about a half hour before she comes in, but that's about it), so I don't know when I'll see her again. That's why I was kinda kicking myself for not exchanging phone numbers, or something like that; but after she said "Let me think about it", all I could get out was "Okay".

On the bright side, a few weeks ago, I had overheard this other coworker of mine ask her out, and I don't know what she ended up telling him, but I know she was kinda brushing him off by repeatedly saying "I feel like that would be really weird...". So, I guess I'd rather get a "Let me think about it" (that, in my opinion, actually sounded pretty genuine, of course I could be wrong), than a "That would be weird...", heh.

[Boisdevie]

Whether she said yes or no slap yourself on the back for asking her.