Ok, so I started off this relationship 2 months ago, at first it was really intense, then about 3 weeks into it he out of the blue tells me.he doesn't know if he's over his ex, with whom he broke up about 2 weeks prior to getting with me. I tell him let's take a little break so he could work things out. I didn't want to force anything, seeing as I previously broke off a 2yr relationship. So in that period he called me every single day, he didn't want to break contact. After a week, he tells me that he's sure that he wants to be with me. I'm not even sure why he told me this is in the first place. He said there was no chance of him being with her again but that he wanted to be fully committed. Since the moment we got back together, he has been calling everyday after work, has introduced me to his friends, introduced me to his parents, but something is off... When were together he's really affectionate, always holding my hand, kissing me, mostly on my forehead in public, but the moment were not together our convos on the phone are business like, msgs are direct no affection, and even if I say something nice he ignores it. Mostly whenever I initiate meetings he can't make time for us alone, its always, come spend time with me and my friends... Hes friends told me he likes me, and that he always mentions me... We see each other at most twice a week, am I asking to much?
Soo after an incident, when he bailed on our date, i just had enough, we had a long talk, he tells me he's confused, he likes me alot, but doesn' know why he can't be his usual self, he can see himself being with me, but just doesn't know why it can't go smoothly for him. I ask him if he wants to break up, has no answer for me. So I tell him maybe we should break up.He then asks, if I would be with him again if he clarified his head. So is he really confused, or just wanted to make a easy break