I have liked her since 8th grade but never could talk to her. I figured when i was a freshman i would have classes with her in the future and i would make my move then , but i never had any classes with her.During the end of the year i had the perfect opportunity to talk to her but i didn't. Im in college now and i see her twice a week sitting on a bench waiting for her ride to pick her up and for the past 2 month have wanted to talk to her but i keep chickening out. Today i chickened out again after telling my self i would do it for sure .... i had the perfect opportunity .i passed her and my mouth just wouldn't open. She sat down and i was around the corner yelling in my head DO IT!! WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE!! So i walked by her again and almost said hi but my mouth wouldn't open so i once again walked by and sat on a bench near hers and just looked at her until her ride came... ( she did not notice i was looking at her). I know i sound like a stalker now... and i know a lot of you people are going to be like MAN UP YOU loser YOUR NOT READY TO HAVE A GIRL FRIEND! I felt so confident i could do it untill the time came and i chickened out... How can i force my self to just do it? i feel like im going parachuting and my mind is saying it's safe , jump out of the plan, but my body wont let me. I hate my self for being such a whimp... Any advice... or am i just doomed to be a loner for the rest of my life because of my lameness.......