Am I in good shape?

[Catalanarts]

Slept with a lady for the first time after a 3rd date. She didnt spend the night. I sent her an email 3 days later:

me: "Had a fun time with you the other night. Owe you and eskimo kiss Ms. art of dorkness."

her: Haha! Best title ever. I couldn't tell if you were having fun or not, unless you are again being too facetious for me.

me: "Well I know Spanish, Catalan, even some Engrish glammer, But Facetian, I don't know that one fruentrly. If it's in your repertoire you are welcome to tutor me, but I doubt I'd be able to sit still during you oh so serious lesson lady. I did however find your jacket" (she left her jacket at my house)

her: "haven't got the will or the backing credentials to engage in the torture of a didactic exercise with you, however, I'm sure we could find more useful and mutually instructive forms of torture if you want to get all scholastic."

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I know I do want to sleep with her again, but unsure I want to progress into a relationship..if it goes down smooth then perhaps.

Would you say I am in good shape?and remember this was thurs it's now tues..I'm thinking call tonight or tomorrow to set up another "date/session" whatever but I think I need to bring it back to phoe communication.

[Maple1714]

Call her....not text. Tomorrow would be good. Why do you only want a relationship w.her if it goes down smooth? If you genuinely like someone you shouldn't put any restrictions on how it all goes down...just go with the flow and be honest about what you are looking for. Talk to her about her intentions early on and yours...since you are already having sex.

[Catalanarts]

we only did once, and I platyed the "mysterious guy" that she knows nothing about yet knows all about her, been fairly elusive and unpredicatable. I waited 3 days because I a) I felt like it and b) wasnt sure if I want to sleep with her again. I may "talk" with her about it if was sleep togather again, but its only been one time. I also don't want it to get all "soft" yet its still attraction/rapport phase.

[Maple1714]

we only did once, and I platyed the "mysterious guy" that she knows nothing about yet knows all about her, been fairly elusive and unpredicatable. I waited 3 days because I a) I felt like it and b) wasnt sure if I want to sleep with her again. I may "talk" with her about it if was sleep togather again, but its only been one time. I also don't want it to get all "soft" yet its still attraction/rapport phase.

For sure...yeah just hang out again ans see what happens.