I will be humble and open, but is this too much for my "Mrs. PERFECT?"

[Cerby]

Ok maybe I didn't make my point clear, but specifically in this case, she can like whoever she wants. However, if we're driving together, she must have the courtesy to switch to something else or even something that we agree with in listening to. Furthermore, she can like what she wants, but just not force it on me (eg if she asks me to go see a movie I really don't like with her, she must be ok with me deferring and doing something else like hanging out with friends)

You're essentially trying to find a stunning bombshell who will allow you to manipulate her to do what you want, but not necessarily have you reach any compromise on your own. If my gf asks me to go to "insert shit movie here" because she really wants to see it, then I go. But I also know there will be a return to the favour later because she appreciates that I'll sit through it without bitching and complaining.

You don't get what a relationship is, and that is why this thread is going nowhere. You want someone who will cater to you and your likes, be hot as hell, a certain age, with certain hair colour, and shares your likes/music/movies, and if she doesn't, then she can appreciate them silently because you can't be bothered.

You don't sound like the kind of guy these blonde hotties are going to want to date (for long).

[surfhb]

Yeah....just from what you write, you sound like a very unattractive person. Drop the checklist and relax

[Boisdevie]

I think the OP forget to mention a crucial criteria for this perfect woman:
Must like complete dickheads.