Do I have trust Issues

[machan]

Just to give an intro, Me and my gf have been going out for 6 years. Both of us are mid 20's. Its a long distance relationship but no issues at all. Terribly in Love..treat her like a princess.
Love her to bits.

Recently a fellow just moved closer to her. He liked her for years but never bothered telling her about it. But lately he approached her saying that he wants to be a new person and would like to be friends with her. Just before he did this he was stalking her and she started ignoring him.

So do you think I have trust issues if I ask her not to talk to him because my gut feeling is that he is still trying to convince her to love him or is it just natural
for me to be concerned and protective??

Obviously this is not going to affect my relationship as I trust her like GOD and I know she would never ever betray me but its just for me to get a peace of mind! Any advice is very much appreciated.

Thanks

[bulrush]

Yes, most people have trust or jealousy issues. It's normal to have these feelings. But it's not normal to let them control your actions, and make you start screaming, being paranoid, throwing things, or hurting your partner.

[glitterbunny]

i would say if she truly loved you she wouldnt go near him in that way, doesnt seem like she was ever interested either? I wouldnt be concered. I would be pretty offended if a guy asked me not to talk to someone... unless i had cheated on them before. I dont know, i can totally understand why you wouldnt appreciate it much but maybe telling her not to talk to him would make her feel you dont trust her? Sorry not much help, think you knew that anyway. i think you should tell her though you're not overly happy about them being close friends? x

[machan]

Thank you Bulrush and Glitterbunny. Very much appreciate it.

[bcgirl]

It is normal to have these feelings especially knowing that another guy had a crush on your gf... And probably still does. Knowing this however, she shouldn't even consider being his friend with the stalking and crap. If she does, that is not right. She tells u that a guy liked her and now wAnts to be her friend all the while u are far away from her...if she does become his friend, that is total disrespect

[Boisdevie]

She should have already told him to **** off.

[InYourFACE]

ahahahahhahahahaa, fool for shore there is no issues. cause you barely experience her.
sop wasting your time on this long distance bullshit. especially on that age.
people spent so much time on that fantasy shit and when they look back they trow many years of their life's on
bullish.

and someone that is closer can have more influence on someone.
cause relationship is about affection and seeing and experiencing each other.
not about for years wasting time and money n phone calls and chat.
dae local. stop with that crap. and you are not her boss.
you just can tell her your concern. but its up to her o do with it what she wants.