I recently found out that my boyfriend of a few years basically lied to me before and during our relationship. I found out that while we were together and before we were about to get together that he was still in love with his ex. He lied about being single. When they broke up he kept telling me he loved me and went to see her everyday. He told her he loved her when they were separated. And refused to talk to me during Christmas bc he was mad and spent that time talking to her.
Everytime I try to bring the subject up he avoid it completely, shuts me out, and tells me it's in the past so it doesn't matter what happened. Should I leave it alone? Or is there a way to get through his wall and discuss it civily? Please help me...this has been going on forever...