Contacting a girl after a month...?

[terateal]

I met this girl 2 months back.. The first week, we texted each other every night. the 2nd week we went out for lunch twice and dinner once. All three times we had a really good time... she immediately msged me saying she had a wonderful time and we should do it again.. But we have never kissed...

i asked her out again after few days and we decided to go out. but she got busy at work and she msged me saying she cant make it and she feels really bad. I told her "it is fine.. I understand"

one problem was, she never suggested a new day for dinner.

Anyway, after 2 days(friday) i asked her out again and she said okay... but the date was after a week on a wednesday.

that weekend, i msged her and she replied to first few msgs and ignored my last msg, which was "i was thinking about u.. take care".. I started thinking, maybe that msg put her off.. she never ignores my msgs...

She was giving me mixed signals... so on monday, i asked her "if she ignored my message" over IM. she said "no. I was busy with friends, but i did read your message." then i said "that looks like ignoring to me". she said "I dont like the way u r behaving.. what else do u want me to say". i said "at least you could have messaged me the next day".. basically I pissed her off lol...

anyway, i apologized to her a million times.. saying "i thought when i msged u 'I was thinking about u', it put u off and thats y u ignored my msgs..".. she said "i will talk to u about it later".. but she did not contact me... i tried contacting her many times(call and text), but she never replied.. next week i IMed her again.. she said "I have been distant on purpose. u r too sensitive, u seem like a person who needs a lot of attention. I am too busy with work and school." I replied "okay thanks"... next day emailed her saying "I dont think i am whatever u think i am but anyway I wont disturb u again.. if u ever want to talk or listen to my side of the story, u can contact me"...

oh and i also unfriended her from FB.. not because i dont like her.. its because i kept seeing her updates... i wanted to get her off my head

i havent contacted her for a month... thats my story lol

i was busy last month and never thought of her.. last 2-3 days i started thinking about her.. its because of this one song that plays on the radio every min and its her favorite... I started thinking "what if".. except for that one off incident, rest of the time i really did enjoy my time with her...

any advise on what i should do?? contact her one last time?

I am okay with not contacting.. I am not desperate or anything...

i want a girl' s perspective...if something like this happened to u, would you want the guy to contact u again? and would u ever contact that guy if u missed talking to him?

[ttylox]

No I would not want you to contact me. In fact, I would tell all my friends you were a creepy stalker and that I am considering changing my number because you freaked out on me for not answering a text when we only went on a couple dates and never even kissed!

Jeesh dude - leave her alone and save whatever dignity you have left!

[Love'sReject]

Is she hot? But yeah, you did not act in a judicious way with this bird. You may have blown it. Crowded House wrote a track that's pretty apropos to this, I suggest you give it a listen: "Don't Dream It's Over."

[terateal]

@ttylox: thanks. Ya i guess i was a creepy stalker, but i never really stalked her lol.. changing number?? hahaa.. hope she didn't tell her friends i am a creepy stalker.. that would suck lol
next time i should remember never to follow my heart.. always mind first..

you are right i should not contact her again... not because i want to save my dignity, i dont really care about that..



@loves'sreject: I would't call her hot. she is nice. I was attracted to her personality.