i've been dating this guy 6 years older than me for about a year and a half now... he's already been married and has 2 beautiful children which i love just as much as i love him...
when we first started dating everything was PERFECT as it is in every relationship, but like ten times better. he used to make me feel as if i were his queen. he was still living with his, (at this point) "soon to be ex wife". but i trusted that he loved me and wasn't to concered with it. i understand it is hard to find a place, and besides we was with me ALL THE TIME, honsetly.
he and i have this perfect relationship. we've seen the signs of fate more the once.
now my sister (which i live with) hates the matter of he and i being together because she believes i will be getting hurt in the end when he returns to his wife. She tried absalutly everything to get me away from him... down to kicking me out. finally she accepted the fact that i was not going to give up. he moved out not to much longer after that. his best friends and he lived about 4 or 5 minuets from me. i felt more comfortable, and more important at this point. i started sleeping at his house every weekend. as normal couples do we started fighting alot about stupid things. MAINLY HIS EX. one night i said something about him buying her cigarettes, he decided to ignore my phone calls so i continued to call him over and over until he picked up. he picked up yelled at me and broke up with me. we we're broken up for about a month. while we we're broken up, it was still i love you, i miss you, i need you and of coarse we still had sex.
we got back together and everything was fine, then he just started spending more time over his ex's house. the last month we we're dating he slept there once every weekend.
i couldn't handle it, i'm jeliouse as it is. so i nit picked at it, and we fought because the more time he spent there, the more of an @%*hole he became...
finally one night i just was so angry with him because he slept there the night before i kept nit picking and i wouldn't stop, so the broke up with me again.
agian though with i love you's, i miss you's, i need you's and many more signs of fate. we still spent alot time together at first, then he started sleeping at his ex's more and more, he took off work (he works nights) to spend time with her, and the day after they went to dinner at his house and he went home with her and never went to his house...
but still telling me "i don't feel for her the way i do for you"...
almost a month ago he moved back in with her, his roommate kicked him out. he had nowhere to go. i've seen him a total of 3 times, while he was supposed to be at work.
i don't know what to do. because i know he loves me. but i just dunno. i tried getting him to move in with me and my sister but he said no because he is uncomfortable aournd her.
PLEASE HELP...