Hello! I dated the same guy for about three years when he broke up with me out of nowhere in june (about 5 months ago). Needless to say I was absolutely heartbroken, especially since he started dating someone new immediately. But since we broke up, I met this amazing guy, I mean literally perfect... passed all my tests! Our first date was in july, and we went on a few dates since then, but we always knew that we weren't going to date right away because I wasn't ready. It's been about 4 months since our first date, and I went on a few dates with some other guys too, but no one could beat this guy. I told him last week I was ready to date and we decided to make it official. To my surprise, I'm not feeling excited about it at all. In fact, i'm actually feeling quite worried and unhappy. I don't miss my ex at all.... and I wouldn't EVER get back with him, but I find myself thinking (and dreaming) about him quite a bit since I started this new relationship. I'm wondering if I actually am ready to date again?? Or am i just looking too far into it??