If I was guilty of a love crime, it'd be being too eager. Well, back in my days of dating; I'm 22 and over the hill. I haven't the slightest chance of landing a date and that's not even really reflective of a defeatist personality so much as it is, coming to grips with reality.
So, as is the case with virtually all of my non-Intimate section questions, this is actually for the benefit of guys like me rather than my own personal gains so they can avoid being another me.
Anyway, so herein lies (or had lain?) the issue: being too eager. And I am the sort to readily disseminate between obsessive and just being plain too interested: I'd listen to every word, remember all the details and followed statistics but still get a little carried away with passion.
What is with you womens and not standing having a guy actually interested in you? Is it due to a history of being treated with disaffection that you have a safety zone of being treated with disaffection?
Your thoughts, please.