I am a 26 years old guy, I live in London, England
I started talking to this girl I met on a dating site two months ago and we have built up quite a rapore , and really like each other. We have so much in common, and have never fell out, or had any arguments.
Her name is Helen, and we talk on the phone at least 4 or 5 times a week, and we usually chat on the phone for about 6 to 8 hours, sometimes into the early hours of the morning. She is a very principled girl, and she says she likes me because I am not sleazy in any way, and enjoys talking to me
She lives in the same country, but quite far.... and we had made plans to meet very soon
But I have a really big issue in my life, and because of the complications, and what the problem is, I can not continue talking to this girl, as much as I like her. I don't want it to get ruined, and I want to keep things so this thing between me and Helen has no had negativity whatsoever.
I want to send her a message either on email or on the dating site telling her that I want to end the friendship/relationship , not because I don't like her , but because of an issue that would make it difficult for me to be a good boy friend, etc. I want to also tell her in this message how much I really like her, why I like her, and just say that it has to be like this.
I want to know what words to use, and to know how to make the message effect her in a understanding and good way. What do I say? I know a lot of you will just say, just write it from your heart, etc, but I know that I am no good with words, and it will come out very blunt , etc
Any advice on what to say would be GREATLY appreciated
Thanks