Hi everyone
I need some kind of advice. Here is the story, I will try to be short.
He is dirving me crazy. Why do men play hot and cold? Last week was the best one in my life. We spent a night together, it was passionate, we had sex for the first time, I've initiated it. Then he took me out to dinner, he introduced me to his best friend who joined us. When we got back home at his place, we were just cuddling no sex, no nothing. I mean I love to cuddle, but I am confused why he didn't want it anymore.
Later he started to saying to me how beautiful I am, how he adores me, he even said he loves me, wtf. I just smiled, he cought me there unprepared. I was not prepared with this change of the game, so I was confused and when I am confused I mostly shut down and I am quite. But I told him I like him so much back.
Next day he followed me to the airport, he was really nice. He gave me a lots of money to buy myself a new Iphone5 since mine got broken few days ago in order that we can stay in touch since he works in another city. I was shocked, again I was unprepared and I took it but I told him big no at start. So I came back home on saturday. I sent him few messages on his phone. No reply! Yesterday I texted him that I got my Iphone and gave him my new number, so that guy doesn't think I took the money and ran away lol. He didn't reply also. At first his messages were in a delay then he got them but not in the same order lol. I can see he is online on FB chat, but he completely ignores me there, when I logged in yesterday he went off the chat just when I started to write to him.
Now I am confused and sad. I am crazy, all I can think is why? why? why? I know its only 3 days, but what am I suposed to do? I will say to you what are my thoughts about this whole and can someone open my eyes, please? Is it wrong to text someone all the time when he doesn't respond? I want to ask him now if he got my new number in a funny way. I don't know what to do.
1st I think the reason he didn't want to have sex anymore was because he changed his game and saw that I am not some kind of a bimbo and that he wants to take it to the next level in the future but slowely of course. I mean what kind of a guy would give you 1000 dollars to just being able to hear from you.
2nd No, there is no other woman in his life, because no one would do this stuff to anyone and introduce me to his best friend. Cheaters hide thier evidences.
3rdly I might make some mistakes because I said I am switching off my old number because everyone on my job is molesting me and that I need peace in the next days that will come ahead. Maybe that is why he is giving me some space too. And I can tell you its not the first time he did this to me he is slow at replying messages. Why are men like this? I mean say something, text, make a bloody phone call or something it takes just 1 minute. I am not asking for much just few words that will make my day. So what am I suposed to do? Call him tomorrow? What if he doesn't reply? Text him some cute message? I don't know what is wrong with me. But I hate when someone I care for ignores me so much.