LOL, probably not 200. A few though, yes.
LOL, probably not 200. A few though, yes.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
The competition will be great. OP, you'd better have a hot car, a damned nice job and muscles. If so, you might get a date or two and then friendzone'd so she can use you. Be wary of beautiful women.
You are so bitter, lol. There are nice, beautiful women looking for nice men. Of course, most have had to run the asshole gauntlet first to realize that's what they really need. The converse is true for guys too. So many men run through the beautiful, unstable bubble-heads before they decide to connect with a lovely, low-drama, responsible woman.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Those guys you mentioned are so lucky; they're attractive enough to get the hot babes and then later on meet quality women for wives. Meanwhile, we underweight Hobbits have to await the advent of cyborgs that look like hot celebrities.
And as for those beautiful women, they first have the fun and then settle for a commoner who they cheat on because marrying for security is boring.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Neither do I but based on what I've seen, this is one reason the divorce rate is so high among beautiful women and commoner men.
Oh, they never loved each other; my mom was the typical white teen girl trying to get back at daddy by sleeping with a foreigner. And so I was born. Hooray!
If we just made pot legal, so many problems would go away.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Actually, it's quite true; many assume that B.C. is only Vancouver. That is, the few 'Murricans that know of B.C. (most 'Murricans don't even know where it is).
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"All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley
I think I knew I should not write again, otherwise it may seem a little weird and/or desperate. I advise my friends to try and not come across as desperate all the time, but I guess when it comes to myself - my mind is not clear. Thanks for clearing that for me.
I mentioned that this girl is beautiful - but she's not one of those that are up in the clouds for it, she is extremely 'on the ground' about it, from what I've heard from friends of my friends, who happen to know her. Also, she's not very tall and that may have had some impact on her confidence. Maybe not. However, I wanted to stress out that she's a smart, successful and most important for this case - she's a quiet, 'down-to-earth' girl that does not need to get attention from males in order of validating her qualities to herself.
She had never dated some jerks from our town, and from what I've heard - she's looking for a serious boyfriend, but one who is successful, smart and who sees the future as she does, so that they would have a bright future together. She's definitely not in a 'bad boy' phase right now, on the contrary - she's looking for someone to have a stable relationship with.
Although I still have this little hope that maybe she's expecting a concrete invitation from me(for a particular event at a particular given time), I think that I won't do it. I have expressed my interest with the friend request AND the message clearly enough(even if the message wasn't concrete, but generic), so now it's her turn. If she is interested at least a little, what stops her from replying something to me?
If this was someone else's thread, I would give this advice to them: "You've done your thing, now stay still and see if she writes something to you. If she doesn't - it shows you that she is not interested in you.". Pretty much the same that most of you advised me. So, I will take that advice and wait to see what happens.
Thanks for the help.
btw, I wanna reply to Cerby: It's not that I go on facebook to meet girls, I just happened to like this particular one and that was the only means for me to contact her. I do not like online dating, as I said - I am old-fashioned about this stuff, I wanna go out with a girl, have a talk face-to-face and see if we have a good time or not. Thanks
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