Hello Everyone!
I just wanted to get different opinions on this. Me and a few of my friends were discussing this. I am a African American female and recently broke up with my Ex who happens to be Caucasion. Im not a prude or anything but I could not get into some of the sexual things he wanted to do. For me, the things he wanted to do was almost something I would consider "special or different" but to him it was just a part of sex. He could be really rough. Almost dominating, like wanting to gag me (orally) and do me anally, ( I dont know if thats a word). Some of the things I dont even want to get into because it was too much. He asked me once did I want him to lick my ass? Of course I said yes. Then he had the nerve to say he would do me if I did him. Uhm...Hell no! Anyway, it was like all the time to the point where I started to get sort of turned off. When I ended the relationship, he said Okay fine but can we still have sex? I felt kind of used because I wonder if he had some sort of fetish for me as a African American woman becasue he was just so obessesed with me sexually. A relative of mine told me that if I was going to date outside my race like that to get whatever and all I can from him because its a fantasy for him and I need to be sure I can get something out of the deal.
Is this normal with white guys? The black guys I had wasnt like this. Neither was other races. He was by far the wildest. They were freaky but this guy was just a little nasty for my taste. Does different races have sex differently or does it just depends on the person? I am not talking bad about different races but I want to know.