I have yet to find anyone who has advice for this circumstance, but I'll give it a shot here. I don't think I'm particularily attractive, but when I move to a new place or start something new, I attract a number of overly-friendly/flirty guys while trying to build up my social life.
I think I have really bad guy-picking skills because I always end up with a dud (he just wanted an f buddy) or a ride on an emotional roller coaster (he is wishy washy and drives me crazy). What sucks is I feel like I'm overlooking the decent guys who disappear after they see me hanging out with another guy or get seriously friend zoned.
So....is there a secret to picking out someone compatible to further the friendship/relationship with?