Right, literally can't believe it has come to this...but I need some advice!
I have spent the last couple of years focussing on my career, so mean have not been a major focus and I have always felt aware of how me felt about me in relationships. However, there is this guy that has made a sneaky little entrance into my heart and I'm just not sure how he feels.
The story:
So I'd been living in London for 8 years...turned 30...had a mid life crisis and decided to make a change, so I quit my job. Prior to this, my mum and her friend tried to set me up with her friend's son [let's call him Richard]. Went to meet to meet Richard and his friends [turns not interested in Richard], but his friend 'Dave' was there. Dave is not my type, nice guy, but thought nothing of it. So when I quit my job i decided to get a hold of Dave [as he was a Business Director at an advertising firm, so wanted to see if he had any jobs] - turns out he had moved back to SA, which I myself was planning to do. Now bearing in mind I had met this guy ONCE, he gave me advice, set me up on interviews etc. and when I moved home, he constantly sent me texts to see how I was doing and if I was coping with the move...anytime I put a remotely negative facebook status update, he would call me and see how I'm doing. Just literally the kindest person I have ever met. He never talks about other girls, except to mention if someone found him attractive...but always says he's not interested. So my gut feel is would a successful 36 year old man really invest this amount of time in some girl, if he wasn't interested?! But then why hasn't he made a move? Should I make the first move...but if he doesn't feel the same way I'll lose a really amazing friend. I am fully aware of how girly and pathetic this may seem, but I don't fall easily and I don't want to mess this up! Help.....