He says that he has and inguinal hernia and it is causing pain in his testicles. He says it causes a great deal of pain during sex so we have barely had any... is this just an excuse? Any other guy out there that can back up his claim??
He says that he has and inguinal hernia and it is causing pain in his testicles. He says it causes a great deal of pain during sex so we have barely had any... is this just an excuse? Any other guy out there that can back up his claim??
If it's interfering with his sex life, he should have it surgically repaired. Frankly though, I would be worried that something else is going on down there... unless there is a problem with the hernia, people don't ordinarily complain of pain a hernia...
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
what else do you think could physically be going on?
A cyst in his scrotum, perhaps? Cancer of the testicle, maybe? Google "Pain in Testicles" and you'll get a thousand possibilities. Best to encourage him to see a doctor instead of mistrusting why he's not having sex with you.
Here's a good place to start:
http://health.howstuffworks.com/sexual-health/male-reproductive-system/10-causes-of-testicular-pain.htm
Last edited by Wakeup; 31-01-13 at 12:42 AM. Reason: added link
If I had a problem with my goolies I'd be off to see the doctor real fast. Perhaps the sex is crap and he's searching for an excuse.
ouch, ouch, ouch, omg - ouch!
The important question is not whether or not it's an excuse. The important question is if he's doing anything about it. The latter shows whether or not he cares about a lack of sex life.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
no this can happen, my ex got a hernia a few months after we started dating and he would say he could actually feel the hernia in his lower abdomen and that it kinda felt weird when we had sex. he had to get surgery to get it removed
I would say get him to a doctor pretty fast...
If he's a man, mostly he'll want sex, so I don't think a guy would normally lie about that.