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    Taken? or an excuse?

    Hey there people, haven't been here for a while but i got a question which i think girls have asked themselves many times before.

    So there is this guy i met a while back and really liked from the start. the only contact we'd had was over facebook since then and it's basically a onces in a blue moon comment on either status. So I noticed on his pictures he seems very "close" to this girl and his dating status was blank when i met him, now recently he changed the blank to "single" and on my birthday send me wishes and funny video, which was more then i got from my close friends...anyways i figured i'd make a movie and asked him if he wanted to catch a movie and he answered that he is "sort of seeing someone and she probably wouldn't be too happy about." well... I'm wondering since he is official "single" if this is an excuse, or if he was being honest?

    So the basic question i guess is this, if a guy is "sort of" seeing someone and is technically "single" would he go out with someone if he was interested in them?

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    More than likely it was an excuse.

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    Either way he doesn't seem to be interested. Let it go.

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    He isn't into you at all.
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    I would still call myself single if I was just starting to date a girl. If I really like the girl I wouldn't go on dates with other girls during that time. It could ruin my chances of building something substantial with the new girl.

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    Not into you at all.

    If he was into you and was "sorta" seeing someone, then he'd go out with you. I did that all the time. Go out with someone "sorta" and move to the next woman when the opportunity presented itself.

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    sorta means hes dating another girl but they are not official yet.

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    He's not interested. If he was he would pull the I'm "technically" single line... but he didn't.

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