Platonic backrub?

[starry23]

PS. I'm pretty sure he's still a virgin. That might make a difference.

[starry23]

So after all of this, do you think you have feelings for him?

Well, we were texting and I somehow this got brought up: I said, "I love you for you." He replied, "<3 Thanks. Same to you." Meh...Yeah, I like him. A LOT.

[bearz]

PS. I'm pretty sure he's still a virgin. That might make a difference.

That would be difference between him saying no to sex and you two having sex that night. But it shouldn't affect your feelings for him or his feelings for you.

[starry23]

Could you elaborate about the sex part? You're right though.

[starry23]

And honestly, yours truly is still one too! (surprise!) Neither he or his roommate had any condoms...

[bearz]

Could you elaborate about the sex part? You're right though.

If he's still a virgin, he's probably scared of/not ready for it, or at least he doesn't want to make the first move.

[bearz]

And honestly, yours truly is still one too! (surprise!) Neither he or his roommate had any condoms...

You two should take it slow then, don't rush it. Just enjoy each other's company, get used to each other and get more comfortable.

[starry23]

If he's still a virgin, he's probably scared of/not ready for it, or at least he doesn't want to make the first move.

Yeah, it seems that it's just bad timing too. Whenever situations like this comes up and he's super tired or has work at 5 the next morning, he usually backs out of it and is fine with just lying there with me. I'm okay with that too...I just wonder what's going on in that head, haha.

[starry23]

You two should take it slow then, don't rush it. Just enjoy each other's company, get used to each other and get more comfortable.

Thanks. I appreciate your advice!

[bearz]

Yeah, it seems that it's just bad timing too. Whenever situations like this comes up and he's super tired or has work at 5 the next morning, he usually backs out of it and is fine with just lying there with me. I'm okay with that too...I just wonder what's going on in that head, haha.

I wouldn't call it bad timing, unless you really want to just get it over with. Nothing wrong with cuddling and making out.

[starry23]

I do love doing that with him - it's relaxing and comfortable. But a huge part of me wants to just go all the way too...

[bearz]

I do love doing that with him - it's relaxing and comfortable. But a huge part of me wants to just go all the way too...

Heh, totally normal. At this point you probably just want to get it over with.

Check your pm's btw.

[fearoflove]

Obviously, this isn't just platonic. And it also isn't just a massage considering your history with him. Are you retarded?

[Boisdevie]

'Snugging'. I hate that bloody word.
You either want to get physical or you don't so what is this half assed limp wristed 'snuggling'. Sounds like two repressed teenage virgins.