Originally Posted by
bcgirl
Firstly... It's normal for very young siblings to be curious and explore. I remember when I was 5-6 exploring my younger brothers nude body in the bath because we looked different. I also remember trying to mimick kissing and sex scenes on tv with my brother....BUT.... We were way too young to even know what sex was and intercourse was impossible. A 6 yr old child is very different than a 13 yr old. A 13 yr old boy is going through puberty and becomes very horny. And it's sad that he took advantage of his younger sis to satisfy his horniness because a 11 yr old virgin would NOT enjoy having sex for the first time...but she says she does to make her older brother happy. This speaks volume about who is in control here. Alsp at 13 you would know that incest is wrong, yet he went along with it to even make videos for his jerking off afterwards. As for them two being very close and friends... its also possible that your soon to be sis in law is suppressing the memories of having sex with her brother. In very many incentual cases involving children, they have more of an ability to supress trauma to protect themselves from emotional meltdown... Very neat phenomena our mind and body is capable of doing.
Anyhow, what's done is done...you are about to marry this guy. What is a good idea is to talk about it before walking down the aisle. This may be eating away at you down the years. If you were to open Pandora's box, it should be now not after marriage! Also, why did he keep the sex vids with his sis for all these years and just delete them now? I mean, shouldn't it be more common for you to find a recent ex gf sex vid than one that goes back 15 yrs?
And one last thing that you really should take into consideration is that there is a high statistical rate of sexual deviancy from those that have had incest relations as a child. What happens to us sexually as children carries over into adulthood in some form. Most rapers and pedophiles in jail have had a history of sexual abuse or incest as a child.
You should watch "capturing the Friedman" it's a real life case of a teacher that raped his students, his childhood history involved sexual relations with his younger brother (in which his younger brother has no recollection of having sex... Which I had mentioned earlier is very common)