Need advice with a girl

[misooo13]

Hello everyone!

I know this girl through a game on facebook, I wrote her a message and we talked for some days ( you can only write 1 or 2 messages a day). Then I thought it would be fun to meet in person (she studies in the same city i do) and without even adding as facebook friends, so it would be a surprise. I really didn't expect anything out of it, because I tried this blind date thing before and it always went wrong. But this time, it was different. I really liked her from the first moment I saw her. So we talked about more than an hour, then I walked her home. She promised to add me on facebook, I gave her my name.
Then she didn't add me instantly, but after two days. I just wrote her something like "thank you for adding as friends", I was hoping she would write anything and we could start talking. But she didn't write anything, and since then, she wasn't online on chat. I was very nervous because I didn't know if she felt something like me from out meeting, so I wrote her "How do you feel about our meeting? Do you think we can repeat it in the future?" But no answer since then, I think she didn't even read it.

What shoud I do? Should I tell her first how I felt about it? Or should I just wait? Because it is like I'm waiting for an exam result, not really a good feeling.

Thanks for advice,
Michal

[smackie9]

Don't look desparate! Back off and see if she messages you. If she doesn't...you better take the hint that she is not interested.

[smackie9]

Next time don't be asking "How you feel about our meeting" that's a turn off and screams "Don't you like me?!". Just say, I think you are pretty cool, want to hang out again sometime? And then leave it.

[pcmaster]

Shes not so interested I quess.

You said you liked her since you first saw her(did you complemented her on that?). Did she liked you too? Did she smiled all the time or was there something that she might not like about you? Who did carry a conversation and asked the most questions? What did she said when it was time to go?

[misooo13]

Thank you!

pcmaster - to your questions: I didn't really complemented her on that, and I really don't know how much she liked me. She smiled from time to time, but not always. But I think we were a bit nervous also. And we carried the conversation let's say 50:50. And when it was time to go, we just finished our drinks and went, and when we were saying goodbye, I asked if we will do this again, and she said "maybe". Okay, it wasn't like she was crazy about me, but also not like she didn't care at all.
Okay, so I will just wait. You know, she even don't play with me that stupid game anymore. She just added me on facebook and nothing more.

[pcmaster]

Maybe... Would you give her the same answer if she asked?

Maybe - thats what my dream girl said after first date(last date).

So if I understand well you are the one who putt in all the efford: Asked her out, walked to home, texted to facebook. So far she havent done much so MAYBE shes not so interested as you are.

I suggest you go out on more dates with other girls ofcourse. If you had fun with this girl that means you are capable of having fun with girls who actually like you too.

[misooo13]

I think you're right. Thank you.