why are men so quick to jump in but so quick to jump out?

[michelle23]

plus if that bollox theory was true (Bateman 1948; Leakey, 1978) why would any man wana wear a condom? and if if were true no man would ever be capable of loving a woman or a child because he would be too busy focusing on his next "lay"

[VincenzoG91]

It's unfair, but women are judged by looks first and everything else second. So guys may be attracted to your appearance, but soon discover that they don't like something else about you. It doesn't necessarily mean that you have a bad personality. Maybe there is just a significant difference between who you are and how you present yourself. For example, if you are a very serious and intellectual person, but like to bleach your hair platinum blonde and wear miniskirts, you might be attracting the wrong kind of guys.