Why wasn't she angry?

[Eng.Jackadmans]

I asked this girl out for a coffee and she said she was not interested. So went to her house and slashed her tires, while I was doing that she woke up to the noise and she said "You know I can see you?, What are you doing". This was about the 4th time I did this to her, i'm pretty sure she knows what I'm doing. I'm just perplexed by her question and why she wasn't angrier? she wasn't yelling when she said it either.

[pcmaster]

Because she know that you like her and wont touch her.

Or she treats you just like any other psyho - be cool and dont argue cause you dont wana test patience level of someone who is mental.

She wasnt screaming cause she is emotionaly stable, screaming would take her to your game level.

[Eng.Jackadmans]

Because she know that you like her and wont touch her.

Or she treats you just like any other psyho - be cool and dont argue cause you dont wana test patience level of someone who is mental.

She wasnt screaming cause she is emotionaly stable, screaming would take her to your game level.

If she is afraid of me, why doesn't she speak to me? I have made it clear to her, that if she spoke to me I'd stop.

[basilandthyme]

She's not mad because it never happened.

Troll

[Valixy]

I've heard of people who can't take no for an answer and send a love letter or nice text messages, but slashing someone's tires is counterproductive not to mention that it's illegal. And it won't make you look good at all. Are you trying to force her to accept your invitation by scaring her? Sorry, but I just can't understand your logic and behaviour. You sound like a very unsafe person to be with and you are harassing her.

Just leave her alone, respect her decision and have a good look at your behaviour because you need serious improvement.

[Eng.Jackadmans]

I've heard of people who can't take no for an answer and send a love letter or nice text messages, but slashing someone's tires is counterproductive not to mention that it's illegal. And it won't make you look good at all. Are you trying to force her to accept your invitation by scaring her? Sorry, but I just can't understand your logic and behaviour. You sound like a very unsafe person to be with and you are harassing her.

Just leave her alone, respect her decision and have a good look at your behaviour because you need serious improvement.

I dont think a love letter or nice text messages is any barging chips. Where as I now have the power to stop, which is what she wants.

Or could it be because she doesn't care that her tires are slashed?

[Valixy]

Of course she cares of her tires being slashed, it's only natural, but she is hoping for you to stop doing that or other things on your own before she denounces you and asks for a restriction order. You have been very lucky until now, so do yourself a favour and don't push things any further.

You can't force love, you know? Or it stops being love and it becomes a problem. Detach and you'll meet someone else who won't need intimidation in order to go out with you.

[Eng.Jackadmans]

Of course she cares of her tires being slashed, it's only natural, but she is hoping for you to stop doing that or other things on your own before she denounces you and asks for a restriction order. You have been very lucky until now, so do yourself a favour and don't push things any further.

You can't force love, you know? Or it stops being love and it becomes a problem. Detach and you'll meet someone else who won't need intimidation in order to go out with you.

Even if I find someone else, I'll continue with her till she moves out and I cant find her anymore. What do I have to loose?

But all I wanted was to be her friend, and shes ignoring me. She can stop this whenever she likes by talking to me.

[pcmaster]

You remind me one guy from kindergarden. He didnt had a friends but he wanted to. He was ugly - from inside. He tried too hard to impress people. Always took everything too seriously. He was confident from outside but easly pist off. When he made mistakes he got punnished more than anyone else cause no one liked him. He was ugly from outside too. He tried to impress guys with his toys(He had the best toys by those day standarts) but they always where broken, sometimes trowed at him, smashed against him by haters. It was fun for others to pick up on him. Everyone did it. Except me. So by ignoring him I unwilingly become his friend. Just because I didnt abuse him. He gave me sweets and asked for help. I didnt like that anyone sees me together with him, I didnt liked him. Just couldnt abuse him cause he did nothing bad to me. However eventualy he became evil cause of all that shit he got from other guys. He couldnt turn his evil against those who abused him because he would get in even bigger trouble. So he turned his evil against those who did not abuse him - guys like me.

[Valixy]

Are you serious? What do you have to lose if you continue? Your self-respect. Her respect. Other people's respect and trust. Your sanity. Your freedom.

She can decide to speak to you or not, it's a free world, you know? Grow up and show some common sense or look for help for yourself. Obssesion is unhealthy, it happens to other people too but there is a way out of it.

Be a real man, not a pathetic harraser. This means learn to accept with dignity when a woman is not intersted, learn to stand through your own strength, learn that you can't impose things in love.

How would you feel if a guy had this kind of thoughts and slashed the tires of your sister, mother, daughter, best friend?...

[Eng.Jackadmans]

Are you serious? What do you have to lose if you continue? Your self-respect. Her respect. Other people's respect and trust. Your sanity. Your freedom.

She can decide to speak to you or not, it's a free world, you know? Grow up and show some common sense or look for help for yourself. Obssesion is unhealthy, it happens to other people too but there is a way out of it.

Be a real man, not a pathetic harraser. This means learn to accept with dignity when a woman is not intersted, learn to stand through your own strength, learn that you can't impose things in love.

How would you feel if a guy had this kind of thoughts and slashed the tires of your sister, mother, daughter, best friend?...

I dont think she cares about me, and no else knows/would care. So I dont have anything to loose, if she doesn't want to be friends I have no obligation to not to do it.
She deserves it, why wouldn't she want to be friend with me? I mean before this.

[michelle23]

You need to get some psychiatric help. This is not normal behavior. See a psychologist/psychiatrist. You probably have schizophrenia or something and you need medication.

Leave this woman alone! She doesn't deserve what you are doing to her and she will never talk to you now because you have crossed a line and scared her.

[Eng.Jackadmans]

You need to get some psychiatric help. This is not normal behavior. See a psychologist/psychiatrist. You probably have schizophrenia or something and you need medication.

Leave this woman alone! She doesn't deserve what you are doing to her and she will never talk to you now because you have crossed a line and scared her.

You saying If i didn't do this she would have been my friend?

I already asked her to be my friend before I did any of this, she didn't reply.

[lamobatsman]

let it go. this is absurd beyond any realms of my imagination and iv done some silly things in the past

[Valixy]

Listen, we've all been turned down or dumped by someone or unfairly ignored in our opinion. Sometimes we have the best intentions but we simply aren't given a chance. It is never easy for anyone but all we can do is learn to accept it with dignity, let it go and move on. She does not want to be friends with you, well, you have to respect that, there are billions of people on this planet and you will find other people who will respond positively to your initiative.