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    How can I socialize and establish a relationship better with girls?

    I am a 15 year old man who has Asperger's Syndrome and Paranoia. Socialising has always been difficult for me but I can socialise reasonably well with guys but not that good with girls. I easily fall in love with a girl but I don't have the guts to ask a girl out. Recently, this feeling keeps getting stronger due to hormones. I want to know how to approach a girl and how to start a relation with one, I am going to greece on the 4th of may and thought this would be a good place to excercise(harshly said, we are dealing with someone's emotions here.) because:
    1.The girls there don't know my history.(social awkwardness and was bullied has lead to the majority of girls not even trying to resocialise with me because of the 'group effect'(don't hang out with him, other girls don't do that too.))
    2.Small amount of consequences. If I screw something up at school, I might get many bad reactions and often those awkward 'Hey, remember that time when you X' situations.

    I am mostly looking for being with a girl that I can love(and preferably be loved back), if she is good looking, that would even better, but any normal girl would suffice.

    Please don't judge me for my age, I am mentally very mature for my age, I am willing to take advice that I will learn from, even if I don't agree with it or believe it.

    I want to know how to approach a girl and how start a relation with one. I also want to know if there are specific rules for Greece and The Netherlands.

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    Look up SimplePickup and SashaDaygame videos on youtube they are pretty much experts on aproaching girls on the street.

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    Duplicate post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    Look up SimplePickup and SashaDaygame videos on youtube they are pretty much experts on aproaching girls on the street.
    I am going to check them out

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    Look up SimplePickup and SashaDaygame videos on youtube they are pretty much experts on aproaching girls on the street.
    Jesus, these guys are masters.

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    Took them years but they just went and started to talk with them. You have to force yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    Took them years but they just went and started to talk with them. You have to force yourself.
    I have been looking at many vids and this helped so incredibly much.

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    Yes they did, and so I thought of myself too. After 100 vids I went out saw a beautiful girl and didnt remember anything. I even forget that I even watched them. Could be better to watch one or two and then just try it in real life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    Yes they did, and so I thought of myself too. After 100 vids I went out saw a beautiful girl and didnt remember anything. I even forget that I even watched them. Could be better to watch one or two and then just try it in real life.
    I am just going to see what happens when I approach a girl. These vids have helped me grasp the basics.

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    Great man, use them more for inspiration for practice rather than information for storage !

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