I have a feeling my BF is cheating on me

[lovesick101]

I've know my BF since Kindergarden,and he was my Second Best Friend.As we grew older,we had some ups and downs,And So.We are now in High School.

Reasons:

1) His Second Best freind is a girl( im his first) and he hangs around her alot
2) Everytime I talk into a room i can almost see the suprise and panic in his eyes
3) I've seen his Texts.
4) He doesnt call or text me anymore.
5) We've had lesser dates

Some of them might just be cause Of Another Thread I have,But 1-3 arent.So what now?!Is he cheating or not?!I really love him but Im afraid he doesnt love me.

He seems to always be busy when i wanna see if we can meet.I called him 5 minuets ago and he said he was busy with David,And I called him and he ssid he had no plans.I asked him if he wanted to play soccer at the Park and he said sure.I'm on my way there,but this seems like it should be here.

[bcgirl]

First off.., if you've seen his texts what has he written to this girl?? Are there any flirtatious or anything that can make you suspicious?
How old r you? How long have you been dating?

[lovesick101]

We've been dating for 1 year.We r both 16,and it seems his Freind is very flirty,And He is too wich is worrying me.

[lovesick101]

He said " Ummm...Had to do sumthing private" when i asked him what he did so i snooped his phone and almost cried.

[Rowen]

We've been dating for 1 year.We r both 16,and it seems his Freind is very flirty,And He is too wich is worrying me.

You're 16. When you're 18, you'll look back on this and laugh.
If you suspect he's cheating, dump him. It's that simple.

[Ann S]

Dear lovesick101 - Please remember that guys mature wayyyyyy behind women. And what you like at 16 is going to mature and be very different from what you will like at 18 or older.
This guy is avoiding you and he is not man enough to tell you up front what is going on. He is playing such childish games. And you, my dear, should drop out of being the pursuer and if he is interested, he will chase you. Put phoning and texting him on hold. Ann

[lovesick101]

Yeah,Im going to.I just need to make sure,Cuz his phone does not tell dates,BUT He has pics.I made a plan.I know who hes chating on i just need to catch him in the act.

[michelle23]

You dont need to make sure. Even if he isnt cheating-you should dump him anyway because he is making you unhappy and you no longer trust him.

[YoYoYoYo]

Hez a loser dump him he doesent dezerve u or anyone.