My ex and I had dated for 2 years but then we broke up. He got a girlfriend but then a year after we broke up (where he had a girlfriend of 8 months), he started talking to me again. We ended up having an affair for nearly 9 months, where I finally decided to tell her. He is actually living with her now and they have a puppy. People ended up finding out and we were still talking and seeing each other. I dropped the L bomb on him but he did not say no. He instead said "why didnt you say something?" He said he has to figure stuff out. After a few weeks of not talking he is still talking to me. It has been about a month since we have had sex. Why is he still contacting me?