I'm in my 30's. I recently met a man from one the dating site. This guy is 37. He seems very down to earth and a really nice guy. Initially we exchanged emails which was really nice. He would email me in a day sometime right away. He mentioned that he works a lot which I think is true. Then we started texting - it was great. He was texting me back right away most of the time. We had engaging conversation. Then we met and we had a great time for 2 hrs. I have a very strong personality and I can come on very strong. But there is a very soft side and girly side to me. We both had fun but we didnt kiss or hug. We had decided this not to be a date. As we met online, we just wanted to see if we are real etc. Next day, when I texted, he was a bit late. I was wondering what happened and whether he liked me or not. So I asked him - how does he feel? He said he didnt feel any strong spark that could lead us something serious. I responded saying well, I liked you. But I want someone who would be attracted to me and like me. Otherwise we need not waste each other time. He said there was no initial spark but he is attacted to me. And when I said that i wanted to give it a try if he liked me. And told him what I liked in him. He said he will think about it. I was fine with that. Then we texted for another two days. But you know after he said he didnt feel that spark, I was turned off a bit. I didnt feel a whole lot but I was not thinking too much about it and just casually meeting him. But there was some and i am happy with that to start knowing someone. But I am noticing that he is not engaging with me in any conversation as he used to before we met. But he is not cutting me off either. I asked to meet and he said he will but not today. He is a matured and nice guy. I am getting in to thinking when he is not responding or engaging a nice conversation with me. After a lot of search, I found this match for me to just drop it without a good try. But at the same time, I dont want to force on each other. I want to fall in love and be a nice happy relationship. What should I do? He is not completely ignoring me. He is working a lot for sure. But I need a lil more time as he had before we met. Or is he just having hard time to say no to me. What is this pattern of behavior? guys? I know for only 3 weeks though and met once. thanks..